Workshop # 5

::::::NEGATIVE::::::::::::::::::::::::::POSITIVE:::::::
3 Jealous/Covetous____________Wishes everyone the best 7
2 Cheap_____________________Generous 8
2 Spiteful/Vindictive___________Forgiving 8
7 Stubborn___________________Pliable 3
5 Suspicious/Paranoid__________Trusting 5
2 Controlling__________________Easygoing 8
0 Dominating/Bully_____________Defender of the weak 10
3 Meek______________________Confidant 7
1 Insecure/Easily dominated_____Secure 9
2 Low Self-Esteem_____________High Self-Esteem 8
2 Critical_____________________Supportive 8
4 Competitive_________________Wants what's best for all 6
2 Make fun of people___________Praises other 8
4 An egoist/vain_______________Humble 6
2 Self-centered_______________Always thinking of others 8
1 Talks over people____________A listener 9
5 Opinionated_________________Open-minded 5
3 Impractical__________________Practical 7
4 Unmotivated_________________Motivated 6
7 Unorganized_________________Organized 3
5 A follower___________________A leader 5
5 Directionless_________________Sense of direction 5
3 Undisciplined_________________Disciplined 7
5 Indulgent/Wasteful____________Conserver 5
3 Harsh/Caustic________________Kind 7
0 Impatient____________________Tolerant 10
1 Coward______________________Brave 9
6 Unproductive_________________Productive 4
6 Small goals___________________Ambitious 4
2 Afraid to take risks_____________Risk taker 8
2 Immature_____________________Mature 8
2 Overly serious_________________Lighthearted 8
1 Morbid, a downer_______________Funny 9
1 Unhappy______________________Happy 9
2 Complainer____________________Content 8
3 Pessimist______________________Optimist 7
1 Worrier/Uptight_________________Relaxed 9
1 Indifferent_____________________Passionate 9
Overly emotional
3 or excitable____________________Even-tempered 7
2 Temper________________________Calm 8
2 Violent_________________________Peaceful 8
Argumentative/
3 Confrontational__________________Mediator 7
3 Shallow_________________________Profound 7
2 Gossiper/Slanderer________________Speaks well of others 8
3 Cynic___________________________Idealist 7
3 A talker_________________________A doer 7
0 Manipulative/Schemer_____________Straightforward 10
0 Liar/Dishonest____________________Honest/Principled 10
1 A taker/A user____________________A giver/A lender 9
1 Inconsiderate_____________________Considerate 9
2 Terse/Monosyllabic_________________Good communicator 8
1 Low energy/Drags you down__________High energy/Full of pep 9
2 Moody____________________________Consistent 8
3 Defeating__________________________Inspiring 7
1 Make others uneasy_________________Calming effect 9
2 Inspires guilt_______________________Uplifts 8


Now, add up the two sides and answer the following questions:

1) Is the number higher on the negative or positive side?
The positive side is higher; much higher.

2) By how much?
By 272 points (assuming my calculations were correct).

3) Which traits have the highest numbers?
Defender of the weak, Tolerant, Straightforward and Honest/Principled

4) What has this taught you about your character?
Hes nice but not that nice; good but that not that good. That there are some traits I havent even thought about when rounding his personality and some that made me stop and think about what he really is like. And that there are certain traits in him that I dont necessarily like but thats just how it is, I guess. He has to be human too.