1) Were you raised by both of your parents? If yes, who were you closest to and why? How did you interact with each? If no, who raised you and how has this affected who you are today?

No, I was mostly raised by my older brother, Elijah. My father was hardly if ever around and I always wished my mother wasn't. The only time she paid attention to me was when she wanted to teach me what she called 'lessons.' She made everything just horrible for me. And she was always comparing me to Jacob and Malcom, who in her eyes were picture perfect. While I was nothing but the dirt under her feet. I do not think I would have made it if it was not for Elijah. He always made time for me no matter what he had going on and made me feel like I was worth something.

2) What do your parents do for a living? Do they expect you to follow the same path? Is this what you want to do? What would you rather do? Do they support your choices?

To this day I still have no idea what either of my parents did. Not much was ever told to me, which I do not mind. I have never wanted to be like either of my parents. My mother wanted me to get married and have children. That was the grand and master plan. My mother feels that women should be seen and not heard. Isn't that the biggest load of bull you have ever heard? I have been through a hell of a lot of careers. But I like the one I have now. Owning a club is a rewarding experience, especially since it is a popular club. And of course my mother does not approve in the least bit.

3) Parental support and approval is an important key to self-esteem, or lack thereof. How much support and approval do you receive? It is of a good nature (ie - supporting you to make the right choices even if it's not popular) or of a dodgy nature (ie - encouraging you to do what must be done to keep yourself on top)? How has this affected you?

Hell, I received no approval from my mother or my father. Both of them always pointed out my mistakes and hardly if ever praised good choices I made. Elijah, on the other hand, was always the one who told me to keep trying and going for what I wanted. He has been my support system. I would be lying if I said it didn't hurt that my parents have never been proud of me. I think if my father was still alive he would be proud of me. Even if it was only a little bit.

4) No matter how wonderful ones parents are, teenagers and parents fight. Even adult children fight with their folks. What sort of things do you and your parents fight about all the time? Do you fight often, or rarely?

Are you joking? Have you met my mother? If you had I would not be asked this stupid question. The question should be when are you and your mother not fighting. We are always yelling about something or another. There are hardly any times were things are happy and carefree. The woman drives me insane, therefore, we try and avoid each other.

I didn't fight too much with my father when he was alive. But then again he was hardly ever around. That made me angry you know? He should have been there. But I guess I cannot blame him since he was married to Prudance.


5) Grandparents can often be an important factor in a life. Are your grandparents still alive? How much of an influence do they exert on your life? On your parents' life?


I never met any of my grandparents. Prudance said I didn't need to meet more people than was neccessary since they would all be disappointed in me. Real sweet huh?

6) How many siblings do you have? Older? Younger? How do you get along with each? Is there any significant rivalry with any of them? Do your parents favor (or appear to favor) one over the other? How do the dynamics of your siblings affect you?

I have three older brothers. Malcom is the oldest, then Jacob and then Elijah. I do not get along with Malcom or Jacob at all. They made my childhood hell. They were constantly teasing me, pushing me around and other such things as that. But they never did anything as long as Elijah was around. I always found it comical since they are older than Elijah. But then again Elijah can be scary looking. Even back then he was. Once you get to know him you see he is a sweetheart. My mother favored Malcom and Jacob and hated Elijah and I. I am not sure who my father favored but he was really nice to me when he was actually home.


7) Are you married? If yes, when did you get married? Was it arranged or not? If no, are you betrothed or engaged? Was it arranged or not? How has this affected your life? Was there someone else you'd rather be with?


I am not married yet. I was suppose to be married by now though. I kind of wish I was married but to someone I love. I would never marry someone my mother picked out. She would pick someone dreadful.


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::Muevase Al Ritmo Del Alma::
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{Dance to the Call of the Night/Move to the Rhythm of the Soul/Just Don't Ever Let Me Go/ Together We'll Show Them How It's Done.}